A question was propositioned today in a group:
Has anyone figured out why SO MANY lesbians have a problem with a
stud-on-stud relationship? SPEAK UP lesbians…….. What do YOU think is the problem?
Everyone says they don’t care until someone who isn’t their preference hits on them.
I think a lot of it is their inner self that sees it and wants to try it. But they’re scared of rejection from their friends.
Well if they were your future friends they’d accept you regardless. I get a LOT of flack but mostly from the black women who see it as an EXTRA GAY thing, but in reality it’s just me being open about mine.
I knew there were going to be a lot of comments that day, aww hell naw I don’t what someone else does, but the reality is you do. If you start out your sentence with “love is love” then end it with “just don’t bring that shit around me” then you do care.
Stop worrying about what makes others happy, the world would be a better place. Hell it’s like saying it’s an extra gay thing if a black woman dated a white woman…doesn’t make any difference in your life right? Doesn’t take any money out of your pocket, yet it’s black women who have typically been the ones to be more vocal about how much they hate it.
But lately, it seems to just be a trend, studs saying they hate it when their femme gf is watching then they creep in the inbox of someone who is open about it, then begging to keep it on the low so no one finds out. Or the femme who says she has no issue with it, then slides that bullshit line in about how she would love to be in the middle.
Naw, cause what our community has failed to realize is that not every relationship is built on sex. You see two doms together and automatically think ohh shit they must be strapping up one another, when the truth is so far fetched from your mind!! Not all studs like using a strap, not all studs like penetration, just like not all femmes do either. If you take away the clothes, we are all the effing same. You couldn’t tell a femme from a stud if she stood in front you naked. They both could have long hair, toenails done, perky breast, and not one would say guess what I wore today.
We have to get rid of the misconception of who is who in other people’s lives!!
Sorry for ranting but hell it’s tough as fuck to date as a S4S woman, without all the bullshit and games the rest of the world wants to play. I’m sorry but not sorry.
