So today was a weird one for me. I saw someone tonight at work that I haven’t seen or spoken too since before my bday. Well long story short, she was supposed to come to my bday party but alas no call no show no nothing. Well about a month later I got a text message in regards to her bday dinner and if I’d come. I didn’t reply, nor did I show (I actually ended up in Knoxville watching a football game that night).
So I’m in the backroom when she comes in and I notice her when I come out the back. Now being the better woman I spoke and said hey, long time no see. Cause let’s face it, my friendship was based on their (there was actually 3 folks I cut loose after the bday dinner thing) availability , cause when ever I’d suggest something they’d be ghost, but would expect me to drop everything at the drop of a dime when they called.
So in the end she walked out the store and didn’t speak. Now I’d go bike riding with her, hell I’m the reason she even got a bike cause I had mine. Then her wife got a bike. But again it was only a friendship when they wanted me around, when I needed someone they were nowhere to be found.
So after she left I just shrugged it off. I didn’t feel bad about the lack of conversation, after all she has a mouth right? Sure I miss hanging out when we did get together, but it’s never any fun if it’s only when you want too!!
Shortly afterwards I saw one of my prophytes and just like as if I was on campus she didn’t speak. Acted as if I didn’t exist. You know I’m a strong believer in karma, and to the people who are still on campus and want to act as if I didn’t become a member of Zeta Phi Beta while an undergrad, I just want you all to know that even though we are sisters in blue blood … Y’all still suck for judging someone you never took the time to get to know. Cause I know I’m a pretty friggin’ awesome person. And if you don’t know, you had better ask somebody!!!
